Object Pronouns
An A1 guide to English object pronouns — me, you, him, her, it, us, them — and where they go in a sentence after verbs and prepositions.
Subject vs. Object
A pronoun replaces a noun. English has two main groups: subject pronouns (who does the action) and object pronouns (who receives the action).
| Subject (does the action) | Object (receives the action) |
|---|---|
| I | me |
| you | you |
| he | him |
| she | her |
| it | it |
| we | us |
| they | them |
Look at how the same person is named differently:
I love Tom. — Tom loves me.
She knows him. — He knows her.
We see them. — They see us.
Notice that
youanditare the same as a subject and as an object.
Where Object Pronouns Go
After a Verb
Object pronouns come after the verb (not before).
Anna saw Tom. → Anna saw him.
I love my dog. → I love it.
Maria invited my parents. → Maria invited them.
The teacher helps the students. → The teacher helps us. (if “the students” includes me)
After a Preposition
Object pronouns also come after prepositions like to, with, for, at, from, about.
This is for you.
He is talking to me.
Come with us.
I bought a gift for him.
She is angry at them.
We are thinking about her.
| Wrong | Right |
|---|---|
Come with we. | Come with us. |
She is talking to I. | She is talking to me. |
This gift is for he. | This gift is for him. |
Subject vs. Object Pronouns Side-by-Side
| Subject | Object |
|---|---|
I am here. | She is calling me. |
You are tall. | I see you. |
He is my friend. | I help him. |
She lives in Lima. | We met her. |
It is a cat. | Look at it. |
We are students. | She teaches us. |
They are happy. | I know them. |
Pronouns and Names Together
When two people do something together, the subject pronoun (“I”, “he”, “she”, etc.) goes with a name before the verb. The object pronoun (“me”, “him”, “her”) goes after the verb or preposition.
Tom and I went to the cinema. (subject — before the verb)
She invited Tom and me. (object — after the verb)
He talked to my brother and me. (object — after the preposition)
A simple test: try the sentence with just the pronoun.
She invited me.✓ — soShe invited Tom and me.✓She invited I.✗ — soShe invited Tom and I.✗
Common Mistakes
| Mistake | Better | Why |
|---|---|---|
Me like coffee. | I like coffee. | The pronoun doing the action is I, not me. |
He sees I. | He sees me. | After the verb (object position), use me, not I. |
Come with I. | Come with me. | After a preposition, use the object form me. |
She is taller than I am. (correct but very formal) / She is taller than me. (informal, very common) | both accepted | In modern spoken English, than me is fine. |
Between you and I | Between you and me | After the preposition between, both pronouns are object pronouns. |
Tom and me went home. | Tom and I went home. | The pair is the subject — use I, not me. |
The teacher gave a book to my friend and I. | The teacher gave a book to my friend and me. | After to, use the object form me. |
Practice: Exercises
Replace the underlined word: 'I love __my dog__.'
Summary
Object pronouns are: me, you, him, her, it, us, them.
Use them after a verb (She knows him) or a preposition (Come with us, This is for me).
You and it look the same as subject and as object — the others all change form.
Quick test for sentences with two people: try the pronoun alone. If I works without the other person, use I. If me works alone, use me.
Tom and I went ← I went ✓
with Tom and me ← with me ✓